The Old Story vs The New Story

The Old Story vs The New Story

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The Old Story vs The New Story – Which One Is Shaping Your 2026?

As the year winds down and the noise of daily life softens, something interesting happens

We get space to think and in that space, a familiar voice often shows up

It sounds sensible, it sounds protective and it sounds like us

But here’s what we’ve learned through personal experience – that voice isn’t always telling the truth

We now think of it as The Old Story

 

What is “The Old Story”?

The “Old Story” is the internal narrative shaped by past experiences, disappointments, fear, and well-meaning conditioning

It says things like:

  • “Now isn’t the right time”

  • “You should be grateful – don’t rock the boat”

  • “What if you fail again?”

  • “You’ve left it too late”

It doesn’t shout – it whispers

And because it feels familiar, it often goes unquestioned

In a training we’re going to share, Dean Graziosi refers to this voice as the inner villain

We like that language but honestly, “The Old Story” feels like a better description from our experience

Because the Old Story once had a job to do – to keep us safe

But left unchallenged, it also keeps life small

Why this matters more than ever right now

As 2026 approaches, many people are already telling themselves:

I’ll think about it in January

But the truth is this:

Your future isn’t shaped by what you plan in January – it’s shaped by the story you believe today

The Old Story delays decisions, avoids discomfort, and keeps you exactly where you are

And here’s the part we want to be very clear about before you say it (and people do)

We are no different from you

Chris and I had our own Old Story running our lives for years

Had we not learned how to recognise it, question it, and consciously replace it, we simply would not be living the life we have today

This is why this training matters to us so deeply

We’ve listened to it more than once and each time it reinforces something we know to be true

Confidence isn’t something you wait for…

It’s something you choose

Give yourself time to watch it here because we promise it will help you take the next step whatever it is for you

As we say The Voice That’s Been Holding You Back Isn’t Yours!

The New Story doesn’t arrive – it’s written

One of the most powerful parts of this training is the invitation to rewrite the narrative

Not by pretending fear doesn’t exist or forcing positivity

But by asking yourself better questions

  • Where did this story come from?

  • What has it already cost me?

  • And what will it cost me if nothing changes?

This is where The New Story begins

The New Story is not reckless or unrealistic…

It’s informed, intentional, and rooted in who you are now – not who you were when the Old Story was formed

The worksheet that accompanies the training is designed to help you do this quietly, honestly, and powerfully especially over the holidays when there’s finally room to think.

And if you come across this post after the holidays it’s just as valid so do use the worksheet

It’s going to become something we will use with our clients all year round to be honest

 

Borrowing belief until yours catches up

Another key insight from the training is this

When doubt feels loud, borrow belief

Look at the stories of people who’ve done what you’re considering not to compare yourself, but to disprove the Old Story!

Because if someone else can do it…

…then the story that says you can’t is already flawed

As you step toward 2026, ask yourself this

Which story am I living from right now?

The Old Story – familiar, safe, but limiting?

Or the New Story – uncertain, but expansive and honest?

You don’t need all the answers today

You just need to stop letting an outdated story decide for you

Your next step

We invite you to

  • Watch the training

  • Use the worksheet

  • And listen carefully to the narrative running quietly in the background of your decisions

Because once you recognise The Old Story you get to choose The New Story

👉 Watch the training and download the worksheet here

Thanks for reading today’s blog The Old Story vs The New Story and would love you to share your thoughts and feedback

Just reach out to us here

And if you prefer to talk to us personally you can book a call here or chat with us on WhatsApp

It’s Fr.ee 😀 to talk and we’re not going to “sell you” just answer your questions and give you some clarity on what’s next

Chris & Susan Beesley

We’re former accountants and management consultants ‘of a certain age‘ with 5 great kids, 7 grand-kids, 1 grand-dog and a little old cat called Vincent. We love skiing, the mountains and travelling the world and we’re passionate about helping others to start and build successful businesses online to generate them a full or part-time income to support their retirement lifestyle.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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